Are the "Bells" in Your Life Building You or Breaking You?

I was talking with a friend the other day and she shared a funny story I wanted to pass along. She owned a ferret a while ago and was frustrated because the ferret was always escaping and she was unable to find it for hours at a time. When she did, he was in the oddest of places. So she came up with this brilliant idea to always know where he was....put a bell around his neck so she would hear him and find him more quickly. Genius! Or.....maybe not so much. It wasn't long be